Top 7 Tips to Build Your Social Currency

Updated: Feb 23


Social currency refers to resources from being in social networks and communities, both on and offline. It is a way to understand the value businesses add to customers.


Building your social currency is a great way to grow personally and professionally.


It's also essential to grow a business. Sometimes, the difference between business success and failure can come down to social currency.


Social Capital versus Social Currency

Social currency derives from Pierre Bourdieu's social capital theory. Social capital relates to increasing your sense of community.


Doing so increases access to information and knowledge, helping to form your identity, and providing status and recognition. Social capital is formed by values and attitudes which influence interactions.


So how do you build your social currency on and offline?


One way is to assess how your business's products or services fit into your consumers lives. After all, social currency applies to the relationship between your business and consumers.


Another way to build social currency is by talking to your consumers and business counterparts about their pain point. To start the conversation, set the intention to help serve their needs, otherwise requests for their time can come across needy or salesy.


I try to have an in-person meet up with a new person in my professional field or in my target market several times a week. In turn, I make time for folks who ask to meet up for coffee or to schedule a quick call.


Having been on both sides of the one being asked and the one asking, it can be beneficial for both parties when the networking is done right.


Can I "Pick Your Brain"?


Since I can't always control my face, I can't help but cringe when someone asks me if they can pick my brain. Depending on how it is asked, it can sometimes comes across as desperate.


When you ask someone if you can pick their brain, you're asking them if you can ask them questions about a topic. The questions can cover details of how they got to where they are, options, advice, strategies and so forth.


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When asking someone for their time, it's important to be polite and upfront about your intentions. On many occasions, people have asked for help and framed it in a way that was misleading.


For instance, one business owner stated she would like to hire me but wanted to understand more about what I do. After weeks of "picking my brain", she ghosted me.


The thing is, if she had been upfront, I probably would not have felt as misled and would have offered my tips anyway. Not only would I not work with her if she reached out again, I would probably not refer her business to my community.


How to authentically build your social currency...



1. Do the heavy lifting.


Make the effort to schedule the call or in-person meeting at a time/location that is convenient for them. If you are scheduling a phone call, be the one to call them. If you are meeting them for coffee, offer to pay for the coffee.


2. Acknowledge the favor.


Let them know you understand that they may not have the time or bandwidth to meet up. By giving them the space to say no, you can leave the door open for future conversations should their schedule clear up.


3. Express sincere appreciation.


It's one thing to send a follow-up thank you note or buy them a coffee. It's another to extend the favor in return. If you don't plan to hire them, let them know you will keep them in mind when you come across someone who could use their product or service.


4. Be upfront.


If you aren't upfront with your intentions, the other party probably will pick up on it sooner rather than later. And that may not always end well if you weren't clear about your goals from the start.


Explain why you want to pick their brain in particular, as opposed to just talking to anyone else in a similar position. If your questions can easily be answered with a simple Google search, then you might want to rethink your approach.


5. Keep it short and simple.


Keeping phone conversations, in-person meetings, or emails short and simple goes a long way. It not only respects the other person's time, but also their mental bandwidth.


As in the earlier example, when someone is just trying to get free consultations month after month, it rarely ends well for both sides.


6. Understand professional boundaries.


Doctors, financial advisors, and therapists probably have it the worst in my opinion. In any industry, "Can I pick your brain?" can move from a simple favor to billable hours.


At the end of the day, I'm much more willing to go out of my way for others when they respect professional boundaries.


7. Re-frame the ask.


Think about the phrase "Can I pick your brain" in the literal sense. It sounds gross, it comes across icky.


Put yourself in the other person's shoes. They are probably asked the same question week after week. It can get exhausting.


Re-framing the questions can make all the difference. Try "Can I schedule a 15-minute call to chat about XYZ?" Or "Can I buy you coffee to learn more about XYZ?"


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